Never Be Rejected Again: Insights from Neuroscientist Andrew Huberman

Key insights

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  "There's something special about being treated nicely by someone who is desired by many."
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  Women tend to prefer men who are physically fit and well-toned, with a high shoulder to hip ratio, rather than extremely muscle-bound guys like Arnold Schwarzenegger during his bodybuilding days.
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  Love is not a recent invention, as it is experienced and described similarly across different cultures and societies.
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  Women are more likely to be attracted to "bad boy" qualities such as self-confidence, arrogance, and risk-taking in short-term mating, while prioritizing different qualities in long-term mating.
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  Women's attraction to men is more context-specific and varies more across contexts than men's attraction to women.
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  "Can Love Last" is a book that explores how strong relationships are built by navigating the dependency-objectification dynamic.
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  Human beings need to learn how to understand and control the dynamics of attraction and intimacy in order to have successful relationships.