Find Your Ideal Partner: Focus on Character and Shared Values

Key insights

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  Look for qualities in a person's character, not just their superficial personality or appearance, when seeking a long-term partner.
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  Finding the perfect partner requires looking beyond their surface personality and engaging with their character and inner strength.
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  Can your partner take criticism? "If you're in a relationship for several years inevitably you're going to be things that grate on you and you're going to want to tell them what you don't like."
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  Insecurities can be a red flag in a potential partner: "And if someone is just bursting with all kinds of insecurities."
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  Don't choose a partner based solely on superficial qualities like sexual attraction, focus on their character and ability to have meaningful conversations.
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  The importance of shared humor in a relationship: "Having a similar kind of sense of humor and things that amuse you is extremely important. It's something that will help you last over years and years."
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  Physical attraction is important, but it may fade after a couple of years, so it's important to focus on finding someone with whom you have a deep connection and shared interests.
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  Shared values and interests are essential for maintaining interest in a long-term relationship.